{"id":18154,"date":"2026-05-05T04:34:30","date_gmt":"2026-05-05T04:34:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shop-cili.com\/?p=18154"},"modified":"2026-05-05T04:34:30","modified_gmt":"2026-05-05T04:34:30","slug":"the-best-way-to-find-it-in-the-age-of-ai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shop-cili.com\/?p=18154","title":{"rendered":"The Best Way to Find It in the Age of AI"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>In much of science fiction, the future shows remarkable technological advances. There are flying cars, superintelligent machines and lightspeed travel. But one thing stays the same: humans. We\u2019re still stuck in fear, division and conflict. The only difference is we have stronger tools to create and destroy. <\/p>\n<p>AI and other advances are often not used to improve us but to feed on our greed, lust for power and weakness. Rather than bringing us together, the technologies are used to divide and conquer.<\/p>\n<p>But the tech isn\u2019t the bad guy in the story. It simply amplifies what\u2019s already in us. We\u2019re the ones with the alignment problem. We need to understand our own code if we want to prevent AI from turning us against each other. The fact is, we don\u2019t trust each other. We prefer to be around people who agree with us. And we reject or try to destroy those who seem different. <\/p>\n<p>The only power AI has to pit us against each other is its ability to manipulate our unexamined fears, judgments and unconscious biases. As long as we remain unaware of these primal drives for survival, algorithms will keep separating us into echo chambers that atrophy our self-awareness\u2014and turn us into teams and tribes that weaken the shared reality that once held us together.<\/p>\n<p>These algorithms are built to grab attention. And they\u2019ve learned that anger, fear or outrage keep people scrolling, clicking and sharing. That\u2019s why the most popular posts online are often the ones that stir up strong feelings. <\/p>\n<p>Worse, these systems keep showing people the same kinds of views they already hold, pushing us deeper into narrow ways of thinking, strengthening biases and fragmenting communities along political, ideological and cultural lines. The result: It becomes harder to relate to each other, making us enemies within our own countries and neighbourhoods, even within our own homes.<\/p>\n<p>Most people think what they see online is \u201cthe world.\u201d But it\u2019s really a custom-made version of the world based on their interests, including unconscious ones. If someone tends to read conservative content, they\u2019ll mostly see conservative news. If they lean liberal, they\u2019ll mostly get liberal stories. This makes other opinions seem strange or even dangerous. It\u2019s a big part of what\u2019s driving so much of today\u2019s division.<\/p>\n<p>And it\u2019s not just politics. AI also affects our ability to connect at all. When people start depending on AI friends that always agree with them, they stop learning how to deal with real-life conflict. True relationships challenge us and help us grow. AI \u201ccompanions\u201d don\u2019t do that. The more people rely on them, the harder it becomes to handle tough conversations.<\/p>\n<p>As a result, people are losing the skills to think deeply, question their beliefs and talk through disagreements. Many struggle to even hold two different ideas in their minds at the same time. This kind of isolation and confusion could tear our society apart\u2014right when we most need strong, connected communities.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\">Community builds immunity<\/h2>\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n<p>Humans are built for community. From the beginning of our history, we\u2019ve needed each other to survive\u2014sharing food, raising children and protecting the group. This teamwork helped shape not just our behaviour, but even the way our brains work. We became smarter and stronger by working together.<\/p>\n<p>Science backs this up. Our brains are made to handle complex social environments. When we bond with others, our brains release oxytocin\u2014a hormone that helps us feel safe and connected. When we\u2019re rejected, this bonding hormone falls off and stress hormones kick in. It doesn\u2019t just hurt us emotionally; it activates the same part of the brain as physical pain.<\/p>\n<p>Over time, loneliness can weaken your immune system, raise stress levels and even shorten your life. On the other hand, close relationships boost both your mental and physical health. And, according to Harvard\u2019s study on adult development, strong social ties are one of the biggest keys to long, happy lives.<\/p>\n<p>You can also see this in the \u201cBlue Zones\u201d\u2014places like Okinawa, Japan and Sardinia, Italy, where people live longer than average. In Okinawa, friends form tight-knit groups called <em>moai<\/em> that last a lifetime. In Sardinia, families often include many generations under one roof. These strong bonds help people feel supported, loved and less stressed. It shows that being part of a real community builds strength\u2014not just for survival, but for thriving.<\/p>\n<p>Throughout history, this kind of community has helped people through the hardest times. After disasters like Hurricane Katrina or the earthquake in Japan, it wasn\u2019t just governments that helped\u2014it was neighbours and strangers. People cooked for each other, cleaned up ruins and opened their homes. They showed that even in dark times, we\u2019re not alone. <\/p>\n<p>During the Great Depression, when money and food were scarce, people still found ways to support each other. They shared what they had so no one would be left behind. It wasn\u2019t perfect, but it helped people get through. These moments show that resilience isn\u2019t just about bouncing back\u2014it\u2019s about reaching out to others.<\/p>\n<p>Even today, we see the power of community-building in programs like Welcome.US and partnerships with Airbnb.org, HP, Google and T-Mobile that help refugees by building networks of support. These acts of kindness show how empathy can turn despair into hope.<\/p>\n<p>As we enter an age shaped by artificial intelligence, these lessons matter more than ever. AI is changing jobs, increasing inequality and spreading false information. But strong communities can help us face these problems.<\/p>\n<p>We need to bring our time, talents and love back to our local neighbourhoods. Create support groups where people can help each other with skills or resources to protect us from the worst effects. And we need to take back digital platforms, remove harmful algorithms and use them to strengthen our connections rather than destroy them.<\/p>\n<p>In this way, community acts like an immune system. It protects us\u2014physically, emotionally, socially and even digitally. As AI continues to reshape our world, we must build strong, caring communities if we want to stay human\u2014and stay well.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\">Community creates common unity<\/h2>\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>The power of community goes beyond helping each other survive. True community happens when people come together for something bigger than themselves. <\/p>\n<p>This idea shows up in the Bible with the passage, \u201cWhere two or three have gathered together in My name, there I am in their midst.\u201d Whether or not you\u2019re religious, the point is that when we unite with a higher intention\u2014whether to pray, build or create\u2014we can do almost anything.<\/p>\n<p>Spiritual and religious communities have often been the strongest. Not just because they offer protection or food, but because they\u2019re built on something transcendent\u2014a belief, a power or a mission that lifts both the group and the people in it. Places like temples and monasteries weren\u2019t only for worship. They were also centres of learning, art and service. And their focus on meaning and purpose helped them survive even through war, hunger and big changes in society.<\/p>\n<p>But this idea isn\u2019t only for religious groups. Many major moments in history were shaped by people coming together with a shared goal. When the Founding Fathers built the United States, they weren\u2019t just starting a country. They were aiming for something greater: freedom, justice and self-rule. Even though they were imperfect, their common goal helped them overcome big challenges. <\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote alignright\">\n<blockquote>\n<p>Humans are at their best when they join in a bigger purpose. Whether it\u2019s a spiritual group, a movement for justice or a creative team, real community lifts us higher.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/figure>\n<p>The Declaration of Independence and the Constitution were more than legal rules\u2014they were expressions of an ideal, calling future generations to aim higher.<\/p>\n<p>The Civil Rights Movement of the 1960s also grew from a shared vision. Led by people like Martin Luther King, Jr., the fight wasn\u2019t just about changing laws\u2014it was about dignity, love and fairness for all. King often spoke of a \u201cbeloved community\u201d\u2014a world where people of all kinds lived with justice and respect. This shared dream gave people the courage to face danger and keep going, and a collective strength to overcome an obstacle that no one could have faced alone.<\/p>\n<p>This same truth shows up in art and creativity. Great changes rarely come from just one person. During the Renaissance, people like Michelangelo and Leonardo da Vinci worked with others in a shared effort to restore classical ideas and show the beauty of human life. They believed art could lift the spirit and reflect something divine. Together, these artists and thinkers contributed some of the most important art and ideas in history.<\/p>\n<p>Another example is a group of filmmakers in the 1970s known as the \u201cMovie Brats.\u201d Made up of directors like Steven Spielberg, George Lucas and Martin Scorsese, they changed movies forever. United by friendship and a shared belief of what cinema could be, they pushed the limits of storytelling, innovation and emotion in film. Their fusion of high art with commercial appeal created the modern blockbuster and brought millions together to share the magic.<\/p>\n<p>While the Enlightenment brought many advances, it also began a shift away from shared higher values. Instead, the focus became more about personal achievement and material success. With the rise of nationalism and individualism, many people have become apathetic. They no longer trust organizations. They\u2019ve pulled away from communities. And they\u2019ve lost connection to a collective mission.<\/p>\n<p>The result: a loneliness and meaning crisis like we\u2019ve never seen. The solution seems clear: we need to come back together. Humans are at their best when they join in a bigger purpose. Whether it\u2019s a spiritual group, a movement for justice or a creative team, real community lifts us higher. <\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not just about surviving; it\u2019s about remembering we belong to something greater. The strongest societies\u2014the ones that can make it through anything\u2014are knit together by this ideal.<\/p>\n<div class=\"alignfull wp-block-ugb-feature ugb-feature ugb-d8356b5 ugb-feature--v2 ugb-feature--design-basic ugb-feature--invert ugb-main-block ugb-main-block--inner-wide ugb--has-block-background\">\n<div class=\"ugb-inner-block ugb-inner-block--wide\">\n<div class=\"ugb-block-content\">\n<div class=\"ugb-feature__item ugb--shadow-3\">\n<div class=\"ugb-feature__content\">\n<p class=\"ugb-feature__description\">Derek Rydall is a bestselling author, a prominent life coach, and a consultant for Emmy and Academy Award winners, Fortune 500 executives, and leaders in business, spirituality, and the healing arts. He is an active speaker, bringing his unique brand of inspiration to audiences around the world. His latest book, <em>A Whole New Human: Ten Ways We Must Evolve to Survive and Thrive in the AI Age<\/em>, is available now. You can learn more about Derek and his work at DerekRydall.com.<\/p>\n<p>This is an excerpt taken with permission from the book\u00a0<em>A Whole New Human: Ten Ways We Must Evolve to Survive and Thrive in the AI Age<\/em>. \u00a92026 by Derek Rydall.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"ugb-feature__image-side\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" width=\"250\" height=\"375\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"ugb-feature__image ugb-img wp-image-137997 ugb-image--shape-stretch\" src=\"https:\/\/www.themindfulword.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/whole-new-human-cover.jpg\" alt=\"Front cover of A Whole New Human by Derek Rydall\" title=\"DIGITALLY DIVIDED WE FALL: But humanly united we stand 15\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.themindfulword.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/whole-new-human-cover.jpg 250w, https:\/\/www.themindfulword.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/whole-new-human-cover-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"font-size:10px\">images: Depositphotos<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In much of science fiction, the future shows remarkable technological advances. 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