{"id":18069,"date":"2025-08-22T04:08:21","date_gmt":"2025-08-22T04:08:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shop-cili.com\/?p=18069"},"modified":"2025-08-22T04:08:21","modified_gmt":"2025-08-22T04:08:21","slug":"how-stoicism-can-help-us-survive-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shop-cili.com\/?p=18069","title":{"rendered":"How Stoicism Can Help Us Survive It"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>Keeping up with the news these days isn\u2019t for the faint of heart. Just separating real, legitimate news from conjecture, as well as purely fake or AI-generated content that\u2019s been designed to mislead us, is a job in itself. <\/p>\n<p>Even those of us with journalism backgrounds, who pride ourselves on confirming facts in every story, are caught in the whirl of a tornado-like information cycle and confused by its content. I recently took an online quiz to \u201cspot the AI-generated photos\u201d and failed it in a spectacular way.<\/p>\n<p>Stoicism teaches us to evaluate every bit of information we encounter against the answer to one fundamental question: Can I do anything about this? If the answer is no, we\u2019re taught to let it go and move on with our lives. Admittedly, this is a tall order when decisions that are out of our hands have real-life implications for us or the people we love.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\">Caring without being captivated<\/h2>\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n<p>The question many people ask of Stoics is, \u201cDoes this mean we\u2019re supposed to treat those things as if they don\u2019t matter?\u201d Absolutely not.<\/p>\n<p>Stoicism has often been mistakenly interpreted as a withdrawal of emotions, but this isn\u2019t really the case. Emotions are real, they\u2019re important, and expressing them is only human. But once the Stoic has had their moment of anger, elation or frustration, they don\u2019t allow the emotion to consume them.<\/p>\n<p>This is accomplished through different methods: <\/p>\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Bringing one\u2019s attention back from the macro to the micro level. What in your own life can you control? What needs your attention that will improve your own little part of the world?<\/li>\n<li>Finding a distraction. That could be doing something creative like writing or painting, or devoting time to helping someone else. Getting outside our own world does a world of good! Giving one\u2019s time, especially to someone less fortunate, is a direct route to gratitude.<\/li>\n<li>Doing something about the issue, to a point. This could mean taking part in a peaceful protest, signing a petition or calling your government representative and telling them how you feel\u2014then putting the phone down and going on with your day.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\">The world is what you make of it<\/h2>\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n<p>Stoics are also sometimes accused of avoiding reality when they don\u2019t agree that the world is going to hell in a handbasket. This is also untrue. We see the world for what it is. <\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s good, as well as bad. We don\u2019t expect everything to run smoothly all the time. Life is messy and unpredictable, and we accept that. But we also try to operate like a social media algorithm. Here\u2019s what I mean: <\/p>\n<p>Many people seem to be unaware that they get more of what they interact with on social media and the internet in general. If they\u2019re constantly clicking on negative stories, the sites\u2019 algorithms will assume that\u2019s what they want and show the person more of them, suppressing information that doesn\u2019t fit the criteria. <\/p>\n<p>That being said, this doesn\u2019t mean a Stoic will only click on videos of puppies and flowers. However, we do keep in mind that social media isn\u2019t the real world. It\u2019s a world the user curates through clicks and likes, and the time we spend there makes a lot of money for each platform\u2019s owners. Our eyes are wide open to its purpose.<\/p>\n<p>To operate like an algorithm, take in less negative information and you\u2019ll begin to see it less often. A person can know what\u2019s going on the world without doom-scrolling and launching a deep dive into every possible opinion about it. Ultimately, we control what we ingest, whether that\u2019s food, drink or news.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\">Silencing the news cycle\u2019s delivery system<\/h2>\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><noscript data-spai=\"1\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1400\" height=\"949\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.shortpixel.ai\/spai\/q_lossy+ret_img+to_auto\/eadn-wc05-103229.nxedge.io\/cdn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/stoicism-news-cycle-smartphone.jpg\" data-spai-egr=\"1\" alt=\"Smartphone open to news site - The 24-Hour News Cycle: How Stoicism Can Help Us Survive It\" class=\"wp-image-136548\" title=\"THE 24-HOUR NEWS CYCLE: How Stoicism can help people endure it in peace 14\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.shortpixel.ai\/spai\/q_lossy+ret_img+to_auto\/eadn-wc05-103229.nxedge.io\/cdn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/stoicism-news-cycle-smartphone.jpg 1400w, https:\/\/cdn.shortpixel.ai\/spai\/q_lossy+ret_img+to_auto\/eadn-wc05-103229.nxedge.io\/cdn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/stoicism-news-cycle-smartphone-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn.shortpixel.ai\/spai\/q_lossy+ret_img+to_auto\/eadn-wc05-103229.nxedge.io\/cdn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/stoicism-news-cycle-smartphone-1024x694.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.shortpixel.ai\/spai\/q_lossy+ret_img+to_auto\/eadn-wc05-103229.nxedge.io\/cdn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/stoicism-news-cycle-smartphone-770x522.jpg 770w, https:\/\/cdn.shortpixel.ai\/spai\/q_lossy+ret_img+to_auto\/eadn-wc05-103229.nxedge.io\/cdn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/stoicism-news-cycle-smartphone-293x199.jpg 293w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1400px) 100vw, 1400px\"\/><\/noscript><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>One of the broader related issues is our addiction to smartphones. They\u2019re designed to keep us focused on them with little hits of dopamine from messages and attention from others. <\/p>\n<p>Fortunately, the Stoic value of temperance can be applied here. It\u2019s the virtue of moderation and self-restraint. First, we must accept that we alone decided to devote more time than necessary to a small rectangle in our hand, and then want to do something about it.<\/p>\n<p>Kostadin Kushlev, Assistant Professor of Psychology at Georgetown University, says that smartphones bring us joy in some ways, but they also take away happiness a little at a time. As a gamer, he\u2019s not immune to the lure of his phone, but he\u2019s been working on spending less time on it:<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>In terms of things that work for me, it is critical to have notifications silenced. I don\u2019t like notification badges on top, the red dots that show you how many notifications you have. That is distracting to me\u2014you see it, and it\u2019s automatic. You have to click on it. My research also shows that batching notifications, having notifications delivered several times a day rather than as they come, can reduce stress and improve well-being.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>In other words, you don\u2019t have to be Pavlov\u2019s dog and react every time you hear a bell.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\">It bears repeating<\/h2>\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n<p>The Internet isn\u2019t reality. Social media isn\u2019t the real world. It\u2019s designed to keep your attention so its owners can make money. If you want to return to real life, step away from the screen and talk to a neighbour, walk a dog or plant a tree. Do something that speaks to your soul. <\/p>\n<p>Ruminating on issues we can do nothing about not only robs us of joy, but of sleep and sometimes our good nature. To remain at peace, we must keep in mind that not ruminating doesn\u2019t mean we no longer care. We\u2019re just choosing to put our energy where it does us, and the world at large, the most good.<\/p>\n<p>It sometimes helps to remind ourselves that the news is composed of stories about unusual happenings in the world, and hearing about a terrible occurrence isn\u2019t necessarily an indication of a terrible world. Good people are out there doing wonderful things every day, but they don\u2019t make the news because we\u2019re supposed to do good. The anomalies, the bad actors in society attract coverage because they\u2019re less common.<\/p>\n<p>Amid the noise of the news in our 24-hour news cycle, Stoics accept that the common denominator is ourselves. Information is there for the taking, but like a second serving of cake, whether we go for it is completely up to us. <\/p>\n<p>If the news is making you miserable, start with what you can control, and that\u2019s yourself and your level of news consumption. Just like a second piece of cake, too much negative news might also give you a stomachache.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00abRELATED READ\u00bb<\/strong> <strong>SPIRITUALITY IN AN AI-DRIVEN WORLD: Finding purpose amid technological change<\/strong>\u00bb<\/p>\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n<p style=\"font-size:10px\">images: Depositphotos<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Keeping up with the news these days isn\u2019t for the faint of heart. 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